Whiners, Trolls and Wanna-be’s
Yep, here we are again discussing whiners, trolls and wanna be’s.
This doesn’t happen in the male working world, why does it have to be so prominent with the women who are working? Women wonder why men are more respected, usually more successful or at least viewed as such and why men are more business like and appear to be more “professional”. Well, could it be because they don’t whine and cry and carry on?
However; with some women, if they don’t like what they hear, they whine and cry about it. Then they get nasty and catty about it or they just disappear.
What is to cry or whine about is beyond me. Someone call the waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaambulance (remember Bruce Willis’ line in “The Kid”). In business there is no room for the waaaaaaaaaaaambulance. Least if you want to be taken seriously.
If you don’t like something, you have the choice to deal with it, make the changes or move on.
Though if you opt for moving on, it’d be in your best interest (as far as sowing and reaping, karma, reputation, not to mention possible legal proceedings, etc.) to NOT take the original company’s information and give it to new companies that are just starting out. Especially a new company being run by someone who messed over people in their prior company.
I’ve made mention of this before but while one can take “information” and pass it on to others, it’s in the manner in which that information is applied in their business that’ll make the ultimate difference. “Information” can be duplicated, but yet customer service, personality, character, honesty, integrity, quality, uniqueness of product…those items can not be duplicated.
Remember that as you may “wanna be” like another company, you can never do so. They haven’t begun cloning people yet (and God willing they won’t ever be successful in doing so) because the good Lord knows the world couldn’t and wouldn’t want to handle TWO of me!
So, while those who have stolen information, attempted to get other information regarding business or whined and had hissy fits over business dealings the rest of the world is going on about business as they should be and building a name for themselves not trying to copy someone else. For the ones who steal information and pass along to new companies, that will come to bite you in the butt and as soon as you pass along the stolen information you just trashed your name, your reputation and so much more in your own life. Meanwhile causing no damage or harm to the person you stole from. Sowing and reaping, plain and simple.
So, women if you want to be taken seriously put on your big girl panties, toss the diapers and pull ups to the side now and get to business and act accordingly and savor your own success knowing it was all you and done the right way.
Topics: Business, Ranting & Rambling |
February 17th, 2008 at 8:31 am
My issue is with jealous competitive consultants. I work hard in my business and that is why I am successful. Then you get poser wannabees who come along who are jealous and feel the need to slap their business ads on top of yours. Geesh, get a life! What happened to respectful competition? Furthermore, if you don’t like the poser wannabees and ignore them and their posts on forum boards, they then get their panties in a knot and fire of PM’s to you wanting to know why you are ignoring them? hmmm, maybe because you are a disrespectful idiot and I don’t deal with those!
February 18th, 2008 at 10:02 am
My issue with competitive wannabes is that you work hard to create a business, then someone comes along, decides they want to do the same thing and copy your business Idea, what I cant understand is , do these women not have a mind to create their own ideas?
They then buy biz domain names that are very close to what you have, follow your ideas, post ads, they claim to have had this idea for a long time if that is true then why havent they put it into action?, send spys into your site/groups/memberships to gather information because their p sized brains cant wrap their thieving fingers around anything.
The fact remains that people see others making it and they are jealous…. they want to be able to do the same so they do what they do? But in the end it bites them in the butt……
March 2nd, 2008 at 7:12 am
Tara, GREAT article!!! I just love reading your blog. I enjoy reading your “matter of fact, tell it like it is, no bull” articles.